I woke this morning from a curious dream. I had met a girl, young and beautiful, with blonde hair to her back, and Azorean eyes. I was myself; that is to say, in the dream I was who I am today. Yet she was full of youth and innocence, ardour and passion for love and commitment, cherishing the splendour of romance and ennobling its highest ideals. She worshipped at the altar of Love, and for her, I was the very avatar of this supreme belief. She loved me with all her might, though she was reserved and gentle of spirit, kind and never untoward. She loved me fiercely, but without abandon, with a serene calmness that belied her true feelings. For my part, I cared for her, but was not drawn in by the same joy as she, and remained unmoved—though appreciative—of her companionship.
One day she came to me with a surprise. She was very excited, and showed me paperwork for a house. I was to sign it with her, and we would have a house together. I couldn’t. I did not feel the same way about her, and I was too busy with other avenues of my life to begin to settle down with this girl. I refused as kindly as I might, though she felt immensely the weight of my rejection. Without tears, without much emotion at all, she told me with surprising conviction that she felt her heart was breaking. It seemed to be a process she could intricately describe, noting vividly every detail, each nuance of exquisite pain that shuddered through her. I was her first love, her only love, and this denial seemed to shatter every triumphant bastion she had ever known. She left me, and I didn’t see her again until much later in my dream.
When I finally saw her, it was in a cabin in the woods, living with her family. It was winter, and the snows had fallen heavily, and the mighty arms of twisted pines had gathered up the winter’s white bounty, hoarding it after their ancient and solemn fashion. I met her inside, for she had called the community together to hear her joyous announcement, and there was no time to send them away after her defeat; now they were a mockery of the ambitions which hopeless fancy feigned.
She wanted nothing to do with me, though I saw on the living room table a compilation she had made earlier, a dedication to her love for me. My name was written on the cover (though I cannot think if it was Pearson, or Garrett, or something else), and it bore the marks of fervent and tender love. I confronted her after some time spent in awkward embarrassment, and she barely acknowledged me. When I forced it, she said that I had ruined everything, that there was nothing left which mattered, and that love was a hollow institution that consumed souls. I tried to convince her she was wrong, and that it was simply not meant to be in this case. From somewhere she produced a placard and read from it. “I am like the white snows of Snowdon, unblemished by the greasy city streetlights. “ She told me it was from a Psalm, and though there was a little more, I cannot summon it from my dream. She said that though she had failed with me, she was still untarnished and awaiting her true love.
There is more to the dream, but it is merely incidental. This portion, however, strikes me very deeply. If ever we receive messages from our subconscious, I think perhaps it is through dreams. “…unblemished by the greasy city streetlights,”: There is much meaning in this, meaning that seeks to direct me, guide me, show me whither I wander before my feet fall astray and I miss my mark. There is still honour in the world, and personal integrity counts when you retire and find you are alone with your thoughts. To me it seems the threat of eternity is unmatched when set against the omniscient voice of my conscience. My compass has so far proved true, my path right, and few are the wayward step have I taken. For what good is intimacy bereft of love? What use is it to know someone with whom your heart shares no bonds? We are all animals, there is no doubt. But we are so much more. While our feet may tread the earth, our eyes gaze beyond the clouds—vast tracts across the limitless aether, thoughts unbridled and unmarred by the conquering worm, who is our oldest brother. Even as we are consumed, we look to the stars above.
A man must have convictions, or what is the use of life? He must temper his dreams with intent, furnish his desires with a carriage, and pursue them to their end. Convictions, beliefs, ideals—these raise us up from the commonalities of existence, lift us to the tiers of gods, whence we might command our destinies. In the crowd of the elder pantheon, we take our place as Olympians, past the clutches of Erebus. Climb, brother, climb! And to look to the furthest horizon and beyond, never limited by the squalor of mediocrity—is there not more?
This seems to me an omen of our intent, a glimpse into our purpose. A white linen may fly from the line and fall to earth, soiled for a moment; but it still retains its nature—a cloth once white, and yet still evidently so. But to take this white sheet and throw it to the ground, dragging it through the muddy puddles and sodden dirt, until it neither bears semblance to a white cloth, nor remembers it ever was—what is the purpose in this? Denying true nature, creating false existence, revelling in the stuff of which we were not made. Man is not meant to lie with pigs, though his flesh rises from the same black earth. His faculties equip him for higher things, pursuits beyond the furthest glimmer in the nighted gulfs which stare down on us through the primordial wastes of time. I would prefer to glimpse a false horizon of golden towers, than gaze upon the bare ruin of an empty land; and so would I rather follow my heart into the cloudy peaks beyond, even though I should only find ghosts, and hear the echoes of raucous laughter far below. Love has a home for me: brightest truths, purest trust in the universe, all were for me in the kiss of one girl. So I shall find my way, and be the merrier when my weary heart knows its own and peace comes at last.